December 29, 2003


I need to budget my adult play. I've joined a dozen personals sites but I haven't paid more than a total of $50 for my experimentation. Costs rise, it seems, as you deal with online dating services more oriented towards "play" rather than long-term relationships.

Still haven't decided if I'm going to pay the greater-than $20/month required to join Adult Friend Finder. If I did, I would be able to find out more about one particular adult male/female couple in San Francisco who have added me to their hotlist. Without paying I can't see their picture or read more than six words about them. But I can carry this notion around in my head that there might be a couple out there interested in doing something with me. What would that be?

Similarly, I still haven't decided if I'm going to pay the greater-than $20/month for, AdultFriendFinder's kinky sister site. If I did, I'd be able to find out more about the two 39 year old ladies in the Bay Area who have added me to their hotlists. Whew! Hot listing!

Until I figure out what my budget (and personal priorities are!) I will continue to add myself to the ranks of the free listed profiles on these sites, picking up phantom, unreachable winks, whispers and hotlistings. More pornography of potential!

Posted by Justin at December 29, 2003 12:38 PM | TrackBack

It's really interesting that you mention money. Once I attended an open SLA (sex & love addiction)12 step meeting as a curiosity seeker. Surprisingly enough, I found that part of the issue for members was there spending around sex. You wouldn't think of that off hand, would you?

Posted by: Liz at January 9, 2004 04:17 PM
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