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Date: Wed, 15 Mar 95 17:16:35 -800
Subject: advice - looking for love

Justin,

I have a girlfriend who I love very much and plan on marrying.... the problem is that when we are not together I hit on other women... which is dumb because once they get interested in me, I totally avoid them because I could never cheat on my girlfriend. If I keep it up however; I am going to get caught and lose my girlfriend.. help me stop.....!!!
dear help me stop

dude, you gotta help youself. Figure out who you want to be with, and talk to her about it. Maybe you are good at making friends with other women, and that shouldn't bother anyone unless you do something exciting. There's nothing patently wrong with that. It takes two to tango, though, so watch your signals.

On the other hand, if your eyes and mind are constantly roving, you are subverting your own sense of true love. Perhaps you feel trapped by your marriage plans, or by a serious relationship.

Figure out what you want, and if you are truly happy with it, you won't sabotage yourself. If you continue to do so, examine what you are after.

You are supposed to be master of your own ship. Find out what's steering you.

Justin

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