http://www.links.net/sex/ The Pornography of Potential. en-us justin@bud.com Wed, 17 Nov 2004 03:37:27 -0800 http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/11/sex_church_film.html I spent much of the last year researching "Sacred Sexuality," looking for an sensual spiritual place or time or community. I didn't really find anything. I found bits of things - a dark room, some books, nice folks, expensive teachers.... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/08/tale_of_two_pairs.html You should write this part up on your web site, she said - a brief respite from our kissing. But make the people anonymous, we agreed. It was obvious what had triggered this notion from her: we were six people,... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/07/hey_dude_you_have_a_condom.html A rotating cast inhabits my Venice summer sublet. One gent living there briefly works as a host, entertaining people at various bars and parties around town. As an artist friend said, "that guy is good looking. Hot!" He's well-built, dark... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/07/favorite_post_of_the_day.html My favorite personals post title of the day: "BiPolyPagan Faerie Princess Seeks Handmadien" [sic] - now I'm just trying to figure out where I fit in that particular fantasy.... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/07/return_of_bazooms.html I'm officially predicting the return of bazooms - pointy tits. Enough of this round, bubble shaped sweater melons. I see missiles in shirts in the near future - torpedo tits. Breasts like I saw in films from the 1950s -... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/06/watching_sex.html Robert Johnson sings some soul-chilling blues music. Fantastic stuff. I've had his albums for years, savoring the echoes of thick sin and payback from another time. Recently, reading about his life, I read this entertaining exchange. The article concerns the... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/05/searching_for_elena_from_khabarovsk.html When I was travelling in Japan I would occasionally run into foreign women who were working there in the "entertainment" industry. These women hailed from Russia in particular, as well as Southeast Asia and China. Japan is the closest center... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/05/a_few_weeks_buildup.html I think it's been weeks since I had an orgasm. It's been long enough that I can't remember. I think I was with someone else, a friend, and we were touching each other - it was a conscentual, even a... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/04/shokushu.html This is fantastic, from Fleshbot - someone has taken the Japanese pornographic video game model, and Japanese pornographic video game themes, and rendered it on the web. In English! Terrific homebrew interactive porn: Shokushu High School... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/04/a_curious_question.html I registered myself on AdultFriendFinder, with a picture or two and some basic info. As I wrote before, I've gotten some lively offers - not exactly the sorts of relational transactions I envisioned when I enrolled. So, I could say,... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/04/eyes_wide_dark.html a night of blind group sexuality in San Francisco Casual sex is difficult, because attachments invariably form between the parties. And if one or both of the parties can't or won't sustain the attachment, then there is pain where there... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/03/book_tantrika.html I tend to wear my interests front and center, like a loud T-shirt. What are you studying? people asked me this month, and I would reply with a short speech about sacred sexuality. My friend Lulu was with me for... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/03/online_dating_panel_at_sxsw.html "Getting It On(Line): Report From the Internet Dating Trenches" 16 March 2004, South by Southwest, Austin, Texas Meeting people over the Internet has gone from being the domain of scaly computer geeks seated in front of their computers to a... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/03/why_im_studying_sacred_sexuality.html My interest in Sacred Sexuality starts with uninformed intuition - a sense that there is something deeply spiritual to erotic acts. When humans join in intimate touch or sexual congress, there is a sweeping feeling there, something larger than either... http://www.links.net/sex/archives/04/03/performance_rituals_of_sex_shamans_in_21st_century_san_francisco.html I'm still coming down off of my night - dancing my ass off to the Lovemakers - most of their music sounds like 80s James Bond themes; whatever your feeling, in person they make a foot move and a hip...